Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Is it Really Worth it.......?

Ever wondered how hard we work to fill our life with luxuries that we hardly have time to enjoy.

LOOK AT IT THIS WAY... The luxury Cars, Toyotas, Land Cruisers, Rav 4's; Mercedes that are parked 8 hours (on the average) driven 40 min to the office and 40 minutes back home 5 days out 7 (i.e. 6 out of 168 hours in a week)....(except for those who stay in lasgigi of course)

And whilst we sit on a not-so-comfortable chair in a small room called an office your Mansion lies idle with only the House Girl enjoying herself to the 'bacon and egg breakfast' (or maybe ogi and moimoi) relaxing on that very expensive leather sofa that we only sit on when we get home...

and being so tired we just doze off to sleep anyway.

When tired of work she takes a break turns on the Plasma TV and spoil herself with the fully subscribed DSTV (or HiTv), of course if she feels bored she can always turn on that brand name Hifi and swing a bit...

And whilst all that is happening where are you?...you are eating a cheap take away lunch (fries from TFC or Mr Biggs) everyday and oh by the way there is no breakfast really, because it's just a cup of tea a few slices of bread probably with some left-overs from yesterday's supper (for the fortunate few).

Every moment you pray that it could just get to 5pm so that you can drive home and join... the House Girl!! (Poor you!). So this is your miserable lot for the rest of your working life... by the time you retire you'll have no pleasure in them anymore. By now your children would have joined in the Rat Race of finding a good job working very hard and never enjoying the fruits of their labours... its all vanity

isn't it?

SO MY QUESTION IS... WHO IS ENJOYING THE FRUITS OF YOUR LABOUR BETTER...


YOU OR YOUR HOUSE GIRL?


(ok, ok, i admit, its not original but it was a damn good read....lol)

34 comments:

Onome said...

yes indeed.........'tis a damn good read...made a lot of sense to....meanwhile..did u really make 18grand on dat wealth builder thingy?????

Onome said...

ooooo.....and er..wen am filthy rich der'l be no househelp..i'll get housecleaners to come clean my house and leave(lol)...and i'll get people to do my shopping for me..fear me wen am rich oo(lmao)

NikkiSab said...

Who is enjoying my house??? I'll av to say my co tenants - cockroach and mosquitos. But de all know who is in charge and pays d bills. But to be frank, i am enjoying o!! My small small fun no get part 2, cos i mn to make my £$ and spend am too. We only live ONCE!!!

An-Igbo-Dude said...

@ onome... its actually 14k(as at today)

@nikkisab.... i see u r living it up. we only live and die ONCE

Jayn Sean said...

You are the one who's enjoying the fruits of your hard earned labour.Don't dey say you rip what you sow? If you choose to work hard for all the wealth then sit you arse somewhere on an uncomfortable chair,counting the hours fron 8am to 5pm,then thats it! Don't blame no one oo!
If you complaining,then stand up,forward the resignition letter(if you aint self-employed),then go home to your wealth.Don't you wanna catch the house girl red-handed still swinging to the beat?..lol..

Nice read though...

Admin UD said...

It's a free world, as i always say..lol!

Manda said...

Funny post, will see to getting a houseboy. At least he wont just eat my money for free (my mind is going silly nowadays) guess it's old age.lol

An-Igbo-Dude said...

@ jaybabe...mmmmmm, not exactly. cos i fit vex

@ ugo..... i hear u

@ manda... what else do u want him to "eat", well like u said, old age..lol

cinnamonqueen said...

so so true it hurts. all work and yet bi can't even afford to keep a house girl, so even when i get home, i can't enjoy o for i am too busy cooking, cleaning, ironing...

Afrobabe said...

LOL...damm true to be honest...makes me wanna be lazy but ehhhhmm maybe I should keep working till i meet MR Right,why exactly am I writing this here?
ok back to the write up,stumbled on ur name and wondered what an ibo dude had to write...dammm good..ok that wasn't exactly back to the topic was it....oh yeah I just had a glass of wine...

Anonymous said...

hmmm.... funny post, but then in actual sense, thats what happens to the working class, i think they dont get to enjoy anything, unless one retires in time and then relax and enjoy, but back home in naija, people dont retire....??????????? its sad...

diary of a G said...

man its a trip...i see peoples coming from work on the bus all the time- you should see their faces- gloom, worrying and in deep thoughts....me I just observe and keep a strong face

My co-worker resently purposely got fired - fed up after working so hard - now he works for his self and has more time for his family plus collect money from the Government via unemployment- and I don't blame him
frankly I think the work week should be 4 days and 3 days weekend
if only

♥♫♪nyemoni♫♪♥ said...

the help is enjoying the fruits better... lol.

Klara said...

Damn right! It's a good read and so realistic, That sincerely happens even though most of us would rather never accept it happens..
BTW Thanx for dropping by mine!!

Arewa said...

Very good read and realistic....I laughed when i read it because it is so true....
The House girl is obvious the one enjoyimg all these things but if u decide to sack ur house girl today..she leaves with nothing... but God forbid u loose ur job or anything happens, these are things that u can then fall back on...so just do what u can and join the rat race for 2morrows sake sha... How we for do?

Thanx for stopping by my page to show some luv. Do stop by again. x x x

Sam Oracle said...

Not every one works like that, besides some people all that DSTV and all that in their offices.
So its enjoyment at the office and enjoyment at home.

The most important thing is "Don't work too hard"

psykotikdiva said...

good read, i wont work too hard (i'll leave that to my man) and i will definately enjoy my wealth

An-Igbo-Dude said...

@ cinnamonqueen....welcome to my world(except for the cooking part)
@ afrobabe....u will meet Mr Right someday.keep it up with the wine. it helps, somehow. infact i need a glass now
@ obinwanne...yes o, retirement is rare. even 70 year old past presidents are still looking for work
@ diary of a G...i agree with u, it should be tabled to the senate. too bad naija govt dont give a shit if u r unemployed
@ nyemoni.... yes ooo
@ Klara....the pleasure is all mine
@ Arewa....i definitely will
@ Oracle...yeah, but sometimes u dont get to watch it
@ psykotikdiva...enjoy ooo

Unknown said...

na your housegirl.

that said:

Well, i just dropped by to let you know of a competition that is running at the africanloft.

www.africanloft.com

Pls, participate.



Ps: 600 words is just a page..

zaiprincesa said...

lol..not original..(i kid)...but hella funny.....
your househelp, gateman, sometimes even your driver...are the ones enjoying the fruits of ur labor oh!..househelps will chill @ home all day...watch tv, sleep, and eat..till u return from work, of course...driver will cruise around in an AC filled car...gateman will relax at home, while u r slaving away in the office....

Manda said...

Obii dearie, abeg no forget my present o! and i will be 23 not 37yrs. sso u been believe?

Nkem said...

Well I think youshould try to see the bright side of this as well. There could be a lot worse and let's just thank god for the luxury we can afford and the fact that we DO have a comfortable home to come back to at 6pm. The house girl doesn't have that.

Then the job doesn't have to be just a tight boring office. Why don't you try to choose a job you'll love. Then a whole different scenario comes in.

Let's think positive!

Ms. Catwalq said...

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princesa said...

Nice read and so true too.
Even if u say u no go employ house girl, it still doesnt change a thing, or does it?

Moody Crab said...

So true....I really dread joining the working class catogory. That is why I want to be in school forever cos that means assured pocket money evry month....talk abt free money.


Better still, find a rich sugar daddy and enjoy his wealth....*ponders philosphically*

Fo said...

cant be said any better...so so so ture...money is venom...sinks slowly in ur viens nd sucks the living out of...and when the time comes....it hits u instantly with no caution....u never release this till its too late...so sad,but ture...and yet we so want it,believing it will fulfil our materialistic wants nd needs with no consequence...but it always has...
xoxo

Demi said...

so, so true!

Anonymous said...

lol... thats hilarious... and kinda true... good question... one i definitely dont have the answer to... at least i dont have to think about things like this at this point...

AIVY said...

the househelp...
as for me i know i cant do all that office shuttling thing (my life no need stress). i wanna work for myself, this will allow me more time to relax and of course i can even work from home.

Naijadude said...

Well only if you have a househelp, then he/she might be enjoying it more!

Dith said...

lol. this is a rather funny way 2 look at it

Aijay said...

Oh well. Such is life!

Standing Truth Betold said...

and this is why i am an aspiring house girl lol

Unmodern said...

i no get house girl so na only me dey enjoy my own lol