….What happens when u rapidly cool a hot burning metal?
I heard this line in the fantastic four movie (crappy film) and I have been asking around (my colleagues at least) for the name of that chemical reaction (?) but no one sees to know. I actually wanted to use that name as the topic of my post but too bad, I guess “chemistry 101” would suffice.
Anyway, I can’t really remember my chemistry lessons but I think if u rapidly cool a burning hot metal, it becomes brittle or break or hardened or something like that (please remind me).
For a minute I was a hot burning metal, full of life, jokes, humour and revving it up and then the next I was rapidly cooled. Now don’t ask me what happened cos I won’t tell but that single action almost broke me. Thank God I am not really a metal. I have been “hardened” in the last few days, rarely smiling, not even mixing or hanging out, working my arse off and staying late in the office. As much as I want to be the hot burning metal right now, I think we (maybe just me) all need to be the “hardened” (or is it “rapidly cooled hot metal”) once in a while.
Its worse when u don’t have anyone to talk to and the one person u can talk to is the culprit. Wish I had someone to talk to right now. An advice..? Have more friends who care about you so they can help you go through the “hardened” process.
Now I really wish I was Wolverine so I can heal faster..
22 comments:
Let's just face it, there are going to be people who will hurt us and people we are going to hurt but it does not give us the right to shut the door of our heart...to love again.
Enuf of my preachin'...stay strong...U'll survive...
whoopi i'm first.OK you seem to be quite depressed right now i agree with the hardning thingy cos we are all human so when we get hurt we clam up,since you have noone to talk to why not confide in a family member or if you don't want to you can pray about it,i'm not exactly a prayer warrior or a huge church goer or born again but i recently realised that the best person to talk to is GOD
Is it really so hard to talk to some1? U should NEVA stay soo angry with sm1 not to talk to dem. I am here, right here.Life is a decision and it seems u av choosen not to talk to dat person and be depressed. Wat if d oda psn tries but u r feelin too hurt to take d hand of peace. Being hardened i doubt will take any1 far, cos u'll spend so much time on dat and miss out on oda tins. Cheer up!!
Talk to me then! LOL.. It can't really be that bad, can it? Talk to the "person" now??? Trust me you'll feel better when you get thing soff your chest! meanwhile, too much sci-fi in this post for me o!
thanks all..
maybe i have been too stubborn
maybe i hate getting hurt
maybe i hate getting mad and angry
maybe i'm just tired of saying sorry especially when i think i did no wrong.
all the same, i really wish i was wolverine
Hmmmm...I kinda know how you are feeling cos I tend to lock up easily. Try writing down your feeling...it helps. Right now, I have a black notebook where I write the way I feel and a blog (totally different from the current one) and only accesible to me. I do all my ranting there including the swear words.
Being scuh as amebo, I can't help but ask what happened? Please do tell (at least tell me alone...lol) *winks*
@nyemoni... sorry about my blog being too "sci-fi". i guess thats what i can give since i cant really talk about myself
@confessions... i think i like ur idea, would try it out
@nk... sometimes the things u miss so much are the same things that has the power to kill u
Now i dont know what has made you hardened o but Obi i tell u its not the best, take it from someone who has been there and back.
If someone has hurt you, its always better to talk it out rather than letting it stew inside so i suggest u talk to that someone and get it over with.
If its a love relationship andd she say she no want again, then no sweat my bro, there r plenty fishes in the ocean especially for bloke like you.lol.
Sorry o!
@princess.... thanks for the advice, but in this case i dont think we can talk until all the anger is off our hearts. except we want to talk about something else, we can only argue more about it and i doubt if that would help my "healing"
a colleague just came in from the US. me leave the office now so we could get wasted over some bottles. cant talk to him, but the bottles might help though, for this night at least.
good night
see y'all tomorrow
@Racquelle-cutie...hmmm! like you wish you were first...no whoopy here...you ain't first! Moi is first!!!
eyaa, talk to me!!!
lol
abeg no push anybody away o
don't lt what u can't do interfere with what you can do.
My broda, i seriously feel you on dat. Yu see i have gone thru diff. phases of depression that my bodi has become immune to it.
Nothing ever makes me relegated, isolated, depressed, removed from reality again. I now have da formular.
Dont worry yaself too much. Anytime yu feel such, just call up some friends and meet over some drinks and go party. Just try to mix up so it wont be too hard.
Above all, always knoe dat its just a phase and like all phases do, It'll definitely PASS!
Have a nive day, ma broda!
thanks all..
WOLVERINE has risen
i am well again
hey came unto to this a tad late but glad to see your feeling better.
im old-school and always believe that temporary moments of darkness like this are important to appreciate the light.
Glad to know you are feeling better...Bloggin' has a good effect on one's life in a positive way, I must say...you let go all the negative...when you write them down...
anytime u need to talk.
Holla at ur sister from across the water...
take it easy. whenever u r pissed, think of all the people that would give anything to have half the life u have; problems and all
u alryt?
i read this... i thot must be a woman... hmmm... everyone goes thru seasons... so you feel like this now... wont last forever... nice blog btw
Mhh!..i wish i knew what you went thru..maybe i cud say a thing.Now,when you talk of distancing yourself from people and all,i gues i know what you going thru,coz i went the same route at some point,but it's gonna be fine..time heals all.
But hey..dont be 'hard' on yourself like that..might end up taking the wrong turn!
ndo my dear.. take heart... as someone once said quite eloquently.. "this too shall pass"
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